I was reading this blog today, which lead to this flow of words.When you were a little kid, and now as an adult, we all in our hearts of hearts are concerned about how we are perceived. But there are a few people out there who will claim otherwise.
Consider the message I am putting forth and if they still claim otherwise then perhaps they truly are not being true to themselves.
In order to succeed, I need to please our boss.
In order to be loved I need to please our friends and family.
In order to enjoy your own existence on this earth you, in some capacity, need to please yourself.
Each of these moments in time are reflective of the person that you are.
If you choose to be the negative person and live your life as someone that will always claim not to have success perhaps you should consider the measure of your success. Once you consider that, then ask yourself – am I happy?
But if you are the person that chooses the to find the silver lining in moments that probably would otherwise be negative. Realize that you are pleased with your contribution.
When you wake up in the morning you have to look in the mirror and face your own demons, no one can face them for you. Take the commentary and constructive criticisms your friends and families provide you with grain of salt.
After all, you are the boss of you and can please only yourself.
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