Treasure of pain

There are so many genuinely good people in this world; we encounter them every day. But those good people are often individuals that have faced ample amounts of adversity and pain.

Often the pain they feel isn't erasable, whether it is the pain of death or prolonged heartbreak. This pain is something they hold on to forever, never being able to let go of what happened. They were always told - "if you treat others how you want to be treated, they will oblige."

Unfortunately, these good people that we try to love have been so deeply hurt by their experiences, we are left to pick up the pieces and remind them that their presence in this world is appreciated and valued.

If you are one of those that have been hurt realize that life is about experiences; not all of them easy. You are allowed to be hurt, or feel betrayed, and misunderstood. But it is important to deal with your feelings and concerns and know that you heart will soon feel complete again, if you let it. Don’t push those that have hurt you away, their love with soothe your pain.

To those who love these individuals; always know that they will appreciate your effort to help them, maybe today or tomorrow…but eventually. Don’t hate those who have hurt them, or hate that these individuals feel such pain. You have to believe that these experiences will strengthen them, and force them to realize the lessons they were set to learn.

We can't help who we care about or love. But we can try to remember that these good people deserve you in their life even if they never realize it. Treasure the relationship you have with each person, not all of them will ever be perfect, but the majority of the will have some impact.

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Destinies collide

It took one split second, one complete moment, and she knew.

It was something completely unbelievable that would change her forever.

She was given a chance to know what it all really meant.

He was always a part of who she was; she reminded him of what he was missing.

They changed each other, as they were suppose to, as they were meant to.

 

He was scared to face what was in front of him, she was afraid she could be wrong.

She never thought he would walk into her life, or her heart, giving her butterflies.

He never thought she would be what he wanted, or  be able to remind him of who he use to be, that he could be complete.

Once he faces his fears, and she faces hers…they will always be tied to each other, forever.

He was what she had always wanted, and needed. 

She has always been the person he deserved and needed.

 

They will be able to enjoy each second, and each moment, together when their destinies collide.

The act of complacency

It only takes one second for everything to change forever; for you to see world as you never thought that you would.

The impact has changed you, but has anyone noticed the complete change in your vision? Have you noticed the transformation of others?

Are they all so consumed by their own existence that the danger of it all disappearing doesn't bother them? It will always make you wonder what they value.

Life is filled with numerous obstacles and challenges not all of which will be completed, and not everyone in your life will participate as you wish for them to.
You need to help yourself through it.

If you are meant to leave a lasting impression, you will and your heart will be filled with their support.

Choose to accept your present reality, ignore that reality that you thought existed and stand. Face the world with your own strength.

Presumption

Moments of presumption can lead you down dangerous paths to false hope, false expectations and incorrect assumptions.

Everyone loves to do it:

• Make connections that aren’t there.
• Assume falsities about a situation or person.
• Judge a person’s reactions.

The hardest thing to understand for most is that not everyone lives that picturesque life you presume they do. Many either choose to handle it on their own or choose not to make it an issue.

Those that live vicariously through others that look incredibly happen and perfect, expect reality to rear its head. No one has a perfect life, but those that look like they do are able to handle the consequences and impact of the natural aspects of life in a manner that is positive.

Dwelling on negative only keep you in one place, forcing you to stand still while the rat race around you continues on with out. Choose your own path, value the little things and realize the big things will only help you develop and be more aware.

The root of hope

We go through each day with a list of things that we want to accomplish. Much of it realistic, parts of not entirely; we just hope we can get it all done.

Most use hope as a vechile for their own procrastination. Using it as a substitute for a border. What are you trying to keep yourself protect from? Your own fear, disappointment and heart break.

No one likes to face disappointment or their own fears head on, a let alone realize your heart could be shattered. But alas that is when hope enters the picture. Hope becomes your protector letting you believe that if you don't involve yourself in your life or actions, fear won't rear its head.

Unfortunately, something you fail to realize in your analytical process is: assuming the virtues of hope doesn't protect you, but place a road block from yourself and your own eventuality.

Protecting yourself from pain for the short term doesn't mean it won't affect you in the long term. The key is not shelter yourself with falsities like hope and deal with things as the come and be present in your own life to know you must help guide it.

Trying to escape your emotions using hope will only cause you unmistakable pain, the pain you wanted to avoid.